M.F.K. Fisher, the
simultaneously subtle and brilliant food writer, devoted a chapter in
her opus Serve It Forth to the importance of dining alone. She loved to
cook and entertain guests which is beautifully rendered in her writing
but she never forgot to make time for herself. Even when dining alone
Fisher would treat her meal with the same delicate touch and refined
style that she lavished on her guests. I totally agree with her notion
that eating alone does not have to be a chore, bore, or quick fix of
crappy food. She attributes this philosophy of eating well, even when
alone, to a Roman noble named Lucullus. Lucullus was a grand gourmet
notorious for the wealth he squandered on his food budget and opulent
feasts.
One day he verbally abused his team of chefs when they served him leftovers, stale bread, and overly watered wine on an off day from his busy social schedule. When his staff stood apologetically before him they pleaded that since he was eating alone they assumed a lavish feast was not a necessity. He rebuked them by saying that when Lucullus dines with Lucullus the food should be at its very best, going above and beyond what they served his guests. Lucullus ate the finest foods and drank his most potent vintages when dining alone, because he was worth it. I agree wholeheartedly that it is warranted to treat yourself now and again to a special meal made especially for you.

Spending 14-hour days in command of a restaurant kitchen can take a
toll, both physically and emotionally. So when it’s time to move on,
where do chefs go?
Once Anthony Bourdain left The Food Network in a trail of acrimonious dust, he started a second television career on The Travel Channel. The show (”No Reservations”) was better (because, among other things, they allowed Anthony to be his acerbic, outrageous self) but he was gone from my life because the Travel Channel was not available from our cable company. We ordered episodes from Netflix, took them out of the library, and once, in a media coup that rivalled the day when my brother and I tuned in what we believed to be “porn”on the TV in the living room by fiddling rabbit ears and vertical hold, we found one episode of “No Reservations” on “On Demand,” and watched it with the fervor and intensity appropriate for a bootleg copy of Tommy and Pamela.
I set my tool bag down, tip my granny cart back to its resting position, brush the city off my face, and ring the bell. It is two hours before the guests arrive. My client opens the door, clearly grateful that I do exist - that I did show up - and studies me for a second. I always wonder what image they had of me after only chatting with me on the phone or email. I bet it’s very different than my grinning, artistic, fake-redheaded appearance. Were they thinking gorgeous Giada would arrive? Or, god forbid, some female version of Chef Curtis Stone?
There is really nothing better than a crisp golden pancake in the
morning after a long night of boozing. I woke up yesterday morning with
a wicked craving for pancakes and even recall dreaming about them as I
slipped into a deep slumber after bar hopping with friends. I have
experimented in the past with packaged pancake mixes of various styles
and flavors though nothing compares to a homemade buttermilk pancake.