My mother made perfect lox, onions, and eggs. Except it isn’t really lox, onion, and eggs, it's nova scotia, onions, and eggs.
And nova scotia’s best when it comes from a deli department, loose or fresh-sliced, instead of a package at the grocery store.
Food, Family and Memory
Food, Family, and Memory
And the Award Goes To...
Now that awards season is over I have a big one to give out.
Let me say at the start, I go to too many restaurants. I was basically raised eating in fancy restaurants. Long before other parents took their kids out to dinner, mine were trendsetters. We were taken everywhere. We were seen and heard. But, we ate our gourmet meals and behaved. Then it was straight home to a proper bedtime.
A friend’s mother, whom I hadn’t seen since I was a kid, recently told me that the first time she met my family, she had been eating with her husband at Villa Capri and spotted us, kids and all, dining at this almost exclusively grown-up place. What she noticed was how well behaved we were.
My parents rarely adhered to the unspoken rules of the 1950’s. They didn’t believe in babysitters. Aside from Villa Capri, we ate at Chasen’s, Scandia, Brown Derby, Moulin Rouge, and every Sunday night at Matteo’s. We even lived for a brief period at the Garden of Allah Hotel, though it was long after guests like Dorothy Parker, Robert Benchley and F. Scott Fitzgerald had checked out. Anyway, that’s a little of the backstory.
Would today’s Hollywood even exist without its bistros? Nobu, Palm, Mozza, Craft. The oil that lubes the wheels in this town is extra virgin olive oil, preferably for dipping the great bread into at Giorgio Baldi in Santa Monica Canyon. And no great restaurant would survive here or anywhere without those unsung heroes of fine dining – the bussing staff. Technically bussers. But usually referred to as “busboy,” an antiquated term it may be time to lose. Setting tables, clearing tables, cleaning tables, bringing food, you name it, quietly and efficiently. If the service is good, much of the credit goes to them. And that includes “busgirls.” In England the job is often referred to as a waiter’s assistant, a more dignified job description, if you ask me.
The Legend of Maw Maw and Chuckie
I was raised in a very sheltered household
when it came to food. Sure, we would eat the incredible Italian or
Chinese food my father prepared by hand, or feast on amazing French,
Japanese, Indian, Greek, Bistro, or Thai cuisines from local
restaurants. I mean, I did grow up in New York. But I was very
cloistered when it came to one cuisine… American. I was probably 25
before I tasted my first meatloaf. My father and stepmother were both
raised in the suburbs (one in Maryland, one in the Midwest) with very
traditional American family fare and it was an unspoken law that that
cuisine never would cross their daughter’s lips (or their own ever
again).
A long time ago, in a galaxy far, far away, I married a man who had been raised on a gaggle of Air Force bases across the south. The Christmas after we got engaged we visited his grandparents who lived in Florida. His whole family had flown in from various places across the country, as they did every year. I had only met the nuclear family and was a little on edge to meet the rest of the herd. I was a young and outrageous artist and felt a lot of pressure to present myself as relatively normal to my new ultra-conservative family.
The first night we were all gathered in the 1960’s wood paneled eat-in kitchen as Maw Maw (his grandmother) announced we would be having Chuckie Casserole for dinner. This was met with a great cheer from the crowd.
I Will Never Do It Again
Several years ago (about four), I threw a surprise birthday party for the Wild Boar. All I really wanted was for him to be "surprised" and he was. I ordered formal invitations and sent them out with the words, "No Gifts" on the bottom.
How could I expect people to bring him gifts when he and I do not even exchange birthday presents. There is nothing we need/want! I thought I was doing everyone a favor.
Of course everyone showed up with very generous, thoughtful and lovely gifts, even though it wasn't necessary. It was a great party and we still have good memories of that night.
However, fast forward to now. My children have just received their sixth birthday party invitation this year that says "No Gifts". Ugh.
OMG, I will never, never, ever, never put that statement on another party invitation as long as I live.
Savage's Sugar Cookies - AL
When I was a kid growing up in Birmingham, Alabama, my favorite food in the whole wide world were sugar cookies from Savage's Bakery in Homewood. Made fresh daily, from before I could even walk, I used to go in there with my mother to buy bread and other baked goods, knowing that every trip to Savage's always ended with a big fat old-fashioned buttery cookie, cooked to the perfect yellow consistency and coated with the best flakes of sugary sweetness that would melt in your mouth.
Old Mr. Savage used to laugh everytime I came in the door saying he remembered me coming there when I couldn't even open the door by myself, always wide-eyed in hopes that there was a fresh batch of cookies hot out of the oven. Whenever he or one of the women behind the counter saw me walking down the street, they would usually greet me holding one out for me as soon as I walked inside.
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