Though everyone thinks their family is odd, mine was definitely unique, at least in my neighborhood. Both my parents are only children, which made holiday celebrations a little somber since there were no siblings or cousins to play with or share the scrutiny of my grandparents’ expectations.
Plus, my mother is French and my father is Polish, which, in those days (the early 60s) was quite a bone of contention with both sides. It was true love (43 years and counting), so they decided to allow their “crazy” kids to get hitched, but none of them were ever truly happy about it.
The fact that my parents had four kids in 6 years alleviated a little of the enmity and focused their parents' attention on us.
Being a male-dominated world back then, we always went to my Polish grandparents house for Christmas Eve. It was all adults. My siblings and I were the only kids. Since we spent every day of our lives together, we were uninterested and incapable of entertaining each other. We were also expected to behave like little ladies and gentlemen. Not hard since there wasn’t much to play with at my grandparents house. My French grandmother bitched about it every year and often threatened not to attend – even though she couldn’t cook and had no room to host an event.